Summary – What you will learn in this article
A French kiss refers to a kiss involving the tongue.
The term does not originate from France, but from English-speaking countries.
The French use other descriptive expressions to refer to it.
The expression is based on cultural stereotypes about France.
Today, the French kiss is synonymous with romance and passion on an international scale.
What does "French Kiss" mean?
A French kiss is a kiss with the tongue. Both partners open their mouths slightly and touch each other with their tongues. This type of kiss is considered particularly intimate and passionate. The expression is mainly used in English and many other languages, but not in everyday French.
The French kiss begins! Photo selected by Monsieur de France; depositphotos
Where does the term "French kiss" come from?
This term originated in English-speaking countries. After World War I, the French were considered in Great Britain and the United States to be particularly free and passionate in their romantic and physical relationships. The word "French" was therefore used to emphasize sensuality and erotic freedom. This is a cultural cliché and not an original French term.
Do French people really say "French Kiss"?
No, French people hardly ever use the expression "French Kiss." The English term sounds foreign in French or is used ironically at most. However, the word "French Kiss" was added to the dictionary "Le Petit Robert" in 2014, but there are so many other words to describe it in French. A "galoche" and therefore "galocher" means to kiss, you can also talk about a "patin," and we also say "rouler une pelle," which has nothing to do with a shovel, but rather with the sport. Rouler means, of course, to roll your tongue in your partner's mouth, but for the pelle, it's quite surprising, because it comes from a mixture of "peloter," meaning to caress a little (the word appeared in the 18th century), and "s'entraîner" (to train), because players of paume (the French ancestor of tennis) would train a little before starting the game... Quebecers, on their side of the ocean, like to "frencher" when they kiss.
Difference between English and French
In English, "French Kiss" is a common expression. In French, the same gesture is described, but there is no specific term to refer to it. This difference shows how languages treat intimacy differently. According to Monsieur de France, the leading French-language website in the field of French culture, tourism, and heritage, these expressions often reflect the image that foreigners have of France more than the actual French language or culture.
The word "French kiss" was added to the Le Petit Robert dictionary in 2014, but there are so many other words to describe it in French. A "galoche," and therefore "galocher" to kiss, can also be referred to as a "patin," or "rouler une pelle," which has nothing to do with a shovel, but rather with the sport. Rouler obviously means to roll your tongue in your partner's mouth, but for the pelle it's quite surprising since it comes from a mixture of "peloter," meaning to caress a little (the word appeared in the 18th century), and "s'entraîner," since players of Paume (the French ancestor of tennis) would caress a little, that is, did a few warm-ups before starting the game... Quebecers, on their side of the ocean, like to "frencher" when they kiss.
A French kiss in Paris.... We wish them love and happiness! Photo selected by monsieurdefrance.com: Shutterstock
A little bit of technique
Not everyone likes it, as an American study shows that half the world's population does not like kissing with the tongue. However, it should be noted that French kissing has a technical benefit, as it triggers pleasure hormones.
Technically, you don't necessarily get straight to the point. It's about giving little kisses on the mouth, before each of you tilts your head to one side (not the same side!) and gently slides your tongue into your partner's mouth, letting your tongues meet and swirl around each other. Oh, and don't forget to breathe!
The French Kiss: Not So French After All
Kissing on the mouth: an ancient idea.
Roman kiss / Photo selected by Monsieurdefrance.com: Museum of Naples
Fortunately for our ancestors, the idea of kissing on the mouth, or even with the tongue, is not entirely new. Alexander the Great discovered this practice over 2,000 years ago in India. This is not surprising, as the Kama Sutra, which comes from the same place, describes the French kiss as one of 529 ways to make love... Among the Romans, the "French kiss" was called "saevium." It was reserved for sexual relations, especially with prostitutes. The word "saevium" means "flavor" in English, that is, taste.
The kiss of peace between Saint Peter and Saint Paul / Painting selected by monsieurdefrance.com: Alonzo Rodriguez.
Kissing on the mouth is not always sensual in concept: among Christian clergy in the Middle Ages, people kissed on the mouth, with their mouths open but without using their tongues, and this was called the "kiss of peace". But then why the French kiss?
A certain image of France
Rodin's Kiss: by Auguste RODIN (1882) in the Tuileries Garden in Paris. Photo selected by Monsieurdefrance.com: Shutterstock
It seems that it was American soldiers returning from World War I (others say it was the first American tourists in the 19th century) who began to use the term "French kiss" to describe kissing on the mouth, as they were surprised that the French did so relatively easily, in the street or, let's say, in public. A passionate kiss that, in puritanical America, was only practiced in very intimate moments, if at all. Add to that the French's long-standing reputation for love, and you get the idea that kissing on the mouth is a French invention.
FAQ – French Kiss
What does "French Kiss" mean?
A French kiss is a kiss with the tongue.
The two people touch each other with their mouths open and their tongues.
Where does the term "French kiss" come from?
The expression comes from English.
It is based on the cliché that the French are particularly passionate when they kiss.
Do French people really say "French Kiss"?
Non.
In French, this term is rarely used; descriptive expressions are preferred.
How do you say "French kiss" in French?
There is no fixed French term.
Expressions such as "kissing with the tongue" are commonly used.
Is French Kiss a French term?
No, it is an English term.
It refers to a cultural image of France, not to the French language itself.
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